[dropcap color=”orange” background=”green” style=”rounded” size=”small”]E[/dropcap]ditors Note: This post was first published on My Chronic Life Journey in March 2014. This is my response to the 100 Goal Challenge. I found it to be a great way to identify what is important in my life and to help me take the first steps towards a more simple, sustainable and meaningful life. I highly recommend the process to everyone.
As discussed in last week’s post about Finding Your Passion, the first steps are to undertake the 100 Goal Challenge and use your answers to identify your Driving Emotions.
I shared my Driving Emotions and their definitions in the previous post and as requested I’m sharing my list of 100 Goals with you today. I apologise in advance for the lengthy post (I’ve tried to break it up with images so it’s not just text). I hope the goals inspire you and help you in creating your own Life To-Do List (100 goals).
Looking through them I think I can break them down into my Defining the Best ME categories (Mental, Physical, Wisdom) and some fit into more than one category.
My 100 Goal Challenge List:
- Start/Run my own business
- Have 2 children/start a family
- Develop/run educational resources/sessions for business, community and schools/unis
- Visit the Great Barrier Reef
- Visit Tasmania
- Work internationally
- Travel to Europe/UK
- Do 30 minutes walk/run/ride daily
- Daily yoga
- Daily meditation
- Travel to Africa/See wild Gorillas
- Participate in 12hr Rogaine (I did this when I first got ill – before I realised how serious it was – and would love to have the energy/low pain levels to do it again)
- Contribute to charity regularly
- Publish Foggy Frog Picture book
- Work nationally
- Have annual holidays
- Build own house
- Annual income of $100,000 (This one I’m really not sure about, I’d be happy with earning just enough to live off, but the process said to dream big so that’s what I tried to do)
- Retire with enough financial security to continue annual holidays
- Celebrate our 50th wedding anniversary (It’s our 3rd this year)
- Continue to learn something new each year
- Learn to sew my own clothes
- Live as sustainably as possible
- Complete my Bachelor of Education
- Help others live sustainably
- Help others understand chronic illness
- Have monthly dinner parties with family and friends
- Have monthly games afternoons with friends (board games)
- Clean out old and unused things and give to people who will use them
- Set up my own space for sewing, drawing and studying
- Plant and maintain veg garden
- Find a mentor(s) to help me achieve my goals (I’ve found one business mentor already since setting this goal, but I feel that I would benefit from a team of people I can go to for advice/support)
- Schedule time weekly to reflect/review my goals and achievements
- Achieve work/life balance (need to work out what this actually means to me)
- Have a weekly ‘date’ with E
- Pay off our mortgage
- Only buy quality items
- Save 10% of my income
- Organise a financial plan
- Teach my children how to save, invest and create wealth for themselves (need to teach myself this first so I know what I’m talking about… still not too clear on investments and wealth creation)
- Teach my children to live sustainably
- Ensure I have regular health checks
- Read every week (would love daily if possible)
- Learn to live a fulfilling life with my chronic illnesses
- Swim regularly 1-2 x a week
- Visit T in Hong Kong
- Develop networks to help make my ideas reality
- Visit Japan
- Teach my children to cook
- Schedule time to draw
- Learn to belly dance
- Get a family dog
- Participate in a yoga/health retreat
- Find a hobby E and I can do together (used to hike regularly but I’m not up to that at this stage)
- Learn to be more assertive
- Get monthly massages
- Learn to play the guitar better
- Write 2 blog posts a week
- Spend a day by myself every 6 months focusing on reviewing and renewing my goals and plans
- Find a weekly routine that works (I feel very flustered lately as I can’t settle into one routine with things changing all the time)
- Write a will
- Go on a 4 week holiday by myself
- Write regular articles for other blogs/websites/media sources
- Learn to cook more delicious and healthy dairy and gluten free meals
- Spend time in nature regularly
- Enter writing competition and win
- Organise an annual event to raise awareness of, and funds for research into, chronic illness
- Act as a mentor for someone
- Have quarterly girls nights/afternoons/days with my closest friends
- Get Foggy Frog into libraries, schools and homes around the world
- Keep a gratitude jar and read the contents yearly
- Create a neighbourhood/community sustainability group to catch up and share ideas
- Be present and mindful every day
- Develop a morning and evening routine
- Keep a regular journal
- Incorporate physio recommended exercises/stretches into daily life
- Declutter my life
- Spend a weekend away with E every 6 months
- Learn more about business mangement and marketing
- Deliver a TED talk (about my work and education programs?)
- Smile every day
- Learn to deal with conflict
- Write every day
- Frame our pictures and display them in the house
- Interact with people who support my vision
- Make a firm career decision and pursue it
- Be well regarded and respected for my work
- Develop a realistic business plan, implement the plan and follow through
- Assist 10 people to live a fulfilling life with a chronic illness
- Get my superannuation strategy working for me
- Maintain a healthy weight
- Have regular skin checks
- Have monthly goals to focus on
- Build a team around me to help me reach my goals
- Be around for my children as much as possible
- Visit my Uncle in Vietnam
- Buy local as much as possible
- Focus on experiences not possesions
- Eat vegetables with every meal
- Focus on the good things in life
What I’ve learnt from creating my 100 Goal Challenge list
The following are the key important things I’ve pulled from my list:
- Helping others/Educating and Awareness Raising. As I go through this list I can count over 10 items that relate to helping/teaching others about different things.
- Having a support team and strong relationships with my family and friends. Again multiple items on the list focus on spending time with or identifying others who can help me/I can help them.
- Sustainable living. In terms of how I live my life, my financial security, and how I interact with others, having a positive impact instead of a negative one is key.
- Structure and Simplicity. In order to manage my illness and remain as healthy as possible I should aim to have some structure in my daily/weekly routines and I should simplify as much as possible. (This will be a focus of a future post)
Have you completed your 100 Goal Challenge?
If so, what have you learnt from reviewing the goals you’ve set?
If not, has my list helped you identify a few more things you could add to your own?